There she has a plan. She has already considered some aspects and decided that it would give healthy, good impacts on her, also them. But when she told them, they opposed her ideas out of their own fear and insecurities. Instead of supporting her, they called her selfish and tried their best to make her feels guilty.
Yeah, there are those people in life, even among people we love and respect the most. I told her that she doesn’t always need their permission to do a thing. To be amazing. To pursue her goals. To make her dreams come true. To let herself develop and thrive healthily and gorgeously.
It’s not hates, nor selfish. It’s an art of growing up. Don’t let their fear and condemnation bore you, rip out your happiness.